Sunday, May 10, 2020

Happy Mother's Day!

Some words of wisdom shared with me 25 years ago from a Mother-like friend/mentor...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
a set of screwdrivers, 
a cordless drill, 
and a black lace bra... 
one friend who always makes her laugh... 
and one who lets her cry... 
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family... 
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored... 
a feeling of control over her destiny... 
how to fall in love without losing herself... 

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... 
How to quit a job, 
break up with a lover, 
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship... 
when to try harder... 
And when to walk away... 
that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents... 
that her childhood may not have been perfect...  but its over... 
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more... 
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it... 
whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally... 

Where to go... 
be it to her best friend's kitchen table... 
or a charming inn in the woods... 
when her soul needs soothing.. 


What she can and can't accomplish in a day... A month... And a year... 


Be blessed!

Melva

 Melva Loves Scraps - Home of the Pieces From The Past Sew Along
that features vintage Kansas City Star quilt blocks!

4 comments:

  1. Lovely adages....thanks for the Mother's Day gift...
    ~ ~ ~ waving from my recliner with a cuppa frothed coffee Julierose

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  2. Thank you for this, I really needed it today

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  3. This is great! I must remember this for next year - or just whenever I need to re-read it! It is so true - we should definitely know those things!!!! I especially needed that last one yesterday! :|

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