Sunday, May 18, 2025

Fractured Emeralds Finish ~ Sew & Tell - May 19, 2025

Welcome back to Melva Loves Scraps and this week's installation of Sew & Tell!  I don't have much to share in progress or completion of quilts...


You see, I was knocked flat on my rumpuss with allergies.  Not just a day or two... Nooooo.  Four days!  I had been doing SO well!  In fact, I had spent time outside on Saturday AND Sunday planting flower seeds and actually enjoying easy weeding since the ground had been well saturated after several days of rain.  

I don't do much gardening, but I planted flower mats I purchased to support my granddaughters and an assortment of old seeds that were kept around at Mom's house. Some were very out of date. 🤷‍♀️ Sweet peas from 1969! Holly Hocks from 2008! And several others from the 20teens. 🤣

I am counting on a little help from my dad who could make anything grow. 😁

Dave and I trimmed up a tree near the back of the property that had been damaged in November when we had 42 inches of snow.  It was so pleasant!

And then... WHAMO!  Monday morning, I had burning and watery eyes and nose and my throat felt on fire.  An allergy pill helped some... temporarily. On Tuesday it had progressed, and the allergy meds didn't seem to be helping.  I was fortunate blessed to be able to snag an appointment that morning for a laser treatment and allergy clearing.  Said treatment and other natural remedies did help... It did indeed move on through the various stages but at rapid speed in comparison to what I have experienced for years.  


I was out of commission for 2 days and eventually felt well enough to begin adding green hexagons to my RSC project.  As I sat and allowed my body to rest and heal, I listened to several audio books.  One was the Museum of Lost Quilts.  I enjoyed reading it earlier this year and lucky enough to get it on the Libby app just as I began to crash.  It was comforting to listen to as I snoozed on occasion as the story played.  

I listened to a few other books, but nothing spectacular, in my opinion.  



Since I had finished Fractured Emeralds Tuesday morning, I had plenty of time to sit and ponder the significance of that name as well as the beauty of how each scrap worked with the others to "shine".  I recalled lots of happy memories as I looked at the scraps... I recalled the stuffed Christmas trees Grandma T made for each of her kids and grandkids.  I remembered the excitement I felt as I announced and kicked off the Pieces From the Past sew along as I looked at some of the depression era reproduction fabrics... and the civil war reproduction fabrics I used in my Pieces of the Santa Fe Trail sew along...

My friend Connie who had cleared out her Mom's fabric stash and gave it all to me... Heather as I giggled about the monkey fabric she had selected for me to make her some scrubs as she started her career in the hospital lab.  And my brother's wife who passed away last summer as the binding fabric came from strips of fabric she would use to crochet assorted baskets and such with.

I was reminded that with each memory, life is not always roses and rainbows.  There have been losses and fractured relationships.  And then... I remembered Anne of Green Gables and her flair for drama... "This is the most tragical thing that has ever happened to me!"  **back of hand on forehead with your head tipped back as it is said** If Anne could recover time and time again... so could I!  So SHOULD I!

I reminded myself that it is often in the times spent in the valley that we notice, as we look back, the most growth.  It doesn't mean it is easy, but it IS possible.  For, with God, ALL things are possible.  We must endure the thorns and the rainstorms... and we don't have to do it alone.

I've pulled up my big-girl pants and am moving forward... in just a bit ;)

I saw a thing about Mother's Day and how to avoid having a "bad" one.  It said to tell your children or spouse exactly what you want when they ask you... Ok... thing is, I don't get asked. That's the reason I decided to give myself a gift, exactly what I wanted... and a tradition that I'll continue, thank you very much.  I do appreciate the kind thoughts and comments recently.  My pity party is truly over. 😁  NOW, I will move forward.


This week's party attendance was down. :( I could speculate about why, but I don't have the energy or desire to do so...  

This week's feature is Donna Lee Q.  She shared some great bargains from JoAnn Fabric as they approach the end of the going out of business sales, including this storage unit.  Head over to her blog to see what else she found!

The closest JoAnn Store is 80 miles... if I lived closer, I would certainly be making frequent visits. ;)

Have you taken advantage of any of liquidation sales?

Leave a comment telling me what you picked up!  I'd love to hear from you.

Keep Piecing,

Melva

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Sunday, May 11, 2025

Mother's Day & Rambles - Sew & Tell ~ May 12, 2025

Last week I dove off into a pity pool created by my tears and emotions... Sorry!  I'll share why... hopefully just a short synopsis.

The heart of the idea of Mother's Day is sweet, but it has never been a favorite of Hallmark holidays for me.  When the girls were young and Dave worked weekends, the Mother's Day weekend drug on... and on... and on.  Sundays tended to be rough days for me at home anyway... and then throw into the mix a day when (it seemed) ALL the other Moms were being showered with love and affection (by children AND husbands).  And there I was alone with two (demon-like) toddlers that just viewed it as another day.

Never did I get breakfast in bed... even when they were old enough to do so.  Sure, I got the gifts that were made in school and a few years I got flowers.  And I cannot forget the time when they were teens (one in college/one in HS) and had a custom ring made for me from some orphan earrings.  Best gift from them, EVER! (even though I had to then cover an overdrawn account or two🙈)  And I received a beautiful necklace from our youngest and her new husband the year they were married.  


But I have to be honest that there have been more bad Mother's Days than happy/pleasant ones.  
I have never been after grand gifts from any of them... just a little special "hey!  Thanks!"  

I could go on but... 'nuf said! I can't turn my attitude around if I stay in the pit.

So... this year I decided I would not wait on any special gift or recognition from any of them and did a little retail therapy for myself.  I follow Jen at The Dizzy Quilter and saw that she had an unusual "thimble"... a fidget ring actually.  After doing all of the hand quilting on the teal quilt (and knowing I have the red quilt waiting in the wings), I decided that I wanted to give such a thing a try. 

I guessed at the size.  Knowing it needed to be smaller than my regular ring size I finally settled on one of the smallest I could find available- size 5.  It was delivered Friday... the same day as the latest Elm Creek Quilts book that I won through a giveaway on Instagram arrived.  **happy dance** for happy mail!

While I was shopping, I sent off a little Mother's Day gift for our youngest daughter... the one that has struggled with infertility.  She is a mom... her babies are simply in heaven. 👼👼👼👼👼👼

After finishing my scrappy green/tropical print table topper I was bored with the greens... I pulled out the applique project I started last July and decided that I would finish it as a gift for my Mom.  Ta-da!


With that complete, I fiddled with more green scraps for my RSC hexagon project as well as the "Fractured Emeralds" quilt.  I've put a good dent in the green scrap bin and have even had to pull a few small pieces that really belonged in the bin but were still in the stash.  This gem is ready for borders and then quilting. 💚



Moving on to the Sew & Tell feature of the week... Margo at MY Quilts & Crafts shared an interesting improv piece using denim... here's what she had to say about it.

Working with denim materials is limited in some way.  I'm thankful for my sister-in-law for giving me her old jean pants in many different colors but I limited myself to a few.  I’m using different parts of the pants such as the edge of the pocket and even the ends of the legs.
 
Head over to her blog to learn about the process she is using.

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms -- wannabe moms, birth moms, stepmoms, bonus moms, adoptive moms, mentor moms and spiritual moms. And especially to friends for whom this holiday will be hard. Friends who will be standing by gravesites this Mother’s Day. Friends whose moms haven’t been a part of their lives in many years. And those who have challenging relationships with their moms, who try to navigate Mother’s Day with grace but some necessary distance... Have a blessed day! 

I think Mother's Day is nearly as difficult for some as Valentines Day is for singles... If you are not a fan of MD... You are not alone... and I am praying for you!

I hope you join the party... as well as visit a few others that are participating and make friends!  

Keep Piecing,

Melva

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Thursday, May 8, 2025

Still Waters and Fractured Emeralds

I've been an emotional mess lately... I've put on a pretty good game face, and I am grateful that I have been able to process my thoughts through quilting. 


As I dove into the green scrap bin I found solace and healing.  Sometimes you need to take time to break down the emotions and the source of them.  Hurt, disappointment, anger, frustration, fear.

Twelve years ago I found healing in two other green quilts... You can read about them here & here.

I have realized that on top of the death of our brother-in-law, I've been grieving the death of dreams for our daughters.  We have had the realization and necessity of separation from our oldest (and the grandchildren) because of her toxic husband.  This became increasingly noticeable as Easter came and went and there was no family time.  And then the birthday of the 4-year-old granddaughter...

I feel that the only thing any parent wants for their children (aside from a personal relationship with the Lord) is for them to have healthy marriage/relationship in which they can thrive - together - through life... where the relationship is equal and loving... where they care for each other and want the best in life for each other.

Our youngest daughter has a gem of a husband, and we are sooooooooooo thankful!  Though the death of a dream for her looms ahead.  She and her husband have struggled with infertility for several years.  They were so excited last August... as were we! when they learned that she was pregnant.  Only to be deeply disappointed and crushed a week or so later when she miscarried.  That baby's due date would have been April 17th... just a day before my 60th birthday.  It may be a little selfish, but I looked forward to celebrating the birth as I held a new grandbaby in my arms.  Our daughter has plans to discuss a permanent plan for "birth control" in a few months.  She and her husband are at peace with their decision... I wish I could say "so am I".  :-\


I was drawn back to Psalm 23 as I made the table topper and a song by Leanna Crawford - Still Waters.  I could easily have this song on repeat... I hear it in my sleep and dreams as well as throughout the day as I do laundry, spend time in the kitchen and as I added the various scraps together to make this project...  the border is a print that features sheep!

Lord I believe You can set me at ease 
Turn this broken piece in me to peace and quiet 
I know there’s power in Your word 
So I’ll say it over and over til my soul’s reminded 

Oh The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want
He leads me by still waters ‘til my fears are gone
Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
O I know You are with me 
My Father, my friend 
Your goodness and mercy will follow me all of my days 
I know by Your still waters I’m safe  


As I arranged the green string-pieced blocks on my design wall I thought that it looked fractured... a bit like our hopes and dreams for our children.

A bit like our family...

I am choosing to call this one "Fractured Emeralds"...

And remind myself that God can bring beauty from fractured lives!  I will TRUST Him to work all things together for the Glory of God.

The word trust has been my focus word for the year... I am certainly being reminded, nearly daily, that I need to lean on Him.

Ok, enough of my rambling... if you made it this far, THANK YOU.  Please remember our family in prayer as we navigate this challenging season in life.

It is always helpful when facing difficult times to look outward and see where one can help others.  Do you have a prayer request?  Leave a comment... or, if you're not comfortable making a comment here you can send me an email.

MelvaLovesScraps@NolanQualityCustoms.com

I'll be in my studio listening to Leanna Crawford and following her Aunt Maureen's advice.  ;)

Keep Piecing,

Melva

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Sunday, May 4, 2025

May First Finish ~ Sew & Tell - 5/5/25


My plan was to wait for another road trip to finish the hand-quilting on the scrappy teal quilt... It really was.


I tried to switch gears by putting away the red scrap bin.  I gathered my assorted green scraps and started in with string-pieced blocks.  I got 11 sewn and started to formulate some sort of plan to use them.  I tried pairing them with the tropical Hawaiian print blocks that are 21 years old.  The stack of them is getting smaller each month.  Green is a great color to go with them... however, not string-pieced blocks.

I turned to making green Korner Kabin blocks...  I am pleased with these and have added them to my growing RSC 2025 stack.

I left my studio feeling a little defeated on Thursday evening.  Friday was a struggle.  I realized part of my problem was that I had multiple projects going... the teal quilt needed to be finished, the red quilt is "the lady in waiting" AND I started in on green.  It was an overload for my little brain!  So... I cleaned house. ;)

Friday afternoon I turned on Wind at My Back, picked up my needle and thread and started quilting the teal quilt.  My mind was back at peace.  I was able to complete the quilting of the hanging diamonds Saturday morning.  I sewed the binding on the back of the quilt and finished it with big stitches of variegated embroidery thread (3 strands). 


Ahhhhh... BIG sigh of relief.  
I loved the way the shadows of our blinds played with the quilting and could not resist a few glamor shots. 💖

I am truly ready to start back with the green scraps.  I will continue making the string blocks (as I did with the blues in March), but only after I fulfill my plan of using the "adult" tropical blocks.  I had a dream that showed me what to do.  


Now... back to the Sew & Tell feature!  This week LeeAnna at Not Afraid of Color shared a project that caught my attention.  Here's what she said...

I love a hexie shape and doing EPP hexies. I saw a spiral set hexie block online (can't find it now) that intrigued me for rainbow scrap challenge. This one is all together, so I'll catch up with the colors from last few months and then figure out how to put them in one quilt top. (of course it's done by hand)

Well done!  It is now time to get the party started.  It feels good to be back to routine and have time to not only visit all of the links shared, but to communicate with each of you.  I've missed you!

Keep Piecing,

Melva

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